Backstabbing from friends or loved-one is the wickedest feeling and experience one can ever imagine. When we get deceived, we dwell on our memories with a backstabber, and then, questions our present situation, that I wish he/she had not done this.
Been there, gone through that and yes it hurts like hell! But the damage is already done and you can’t change your past, but you can ensure you aren’t stabbed again. The best advice is to keep this person miles away from you. If they apologize, accept the apology but don’t let them back in your life ever again!!
Lesson learnt: don’t let anyone get too close & have a “save your ass” file always to wiggle your way out of such situations!
It takes time, but to forge good friendships/relationships it takes years n to identify good and the bad, takes an eye!! Evaluate all the red flags you’ve ignored... You will automatically enforce caution the next time because this is a soul-level hurt!!
I saw this friend's manipulations and never looked at her the same way again. She had done other shady things in the past when it came to manipulating people and breaking people’s houses them but it wasn’t a behaviour I ever expected to be turned in my direction. It certainly opened my eyes and I learned she wasn’t a friend I could expect to have my best interests at heart, only her own.
So, Dust yourself, smile and say no one messes with me ever again a million times. Next time, choose your friends, trust your instincts and that little voice at the back of your mind. Remember what goes stabbing around gets stabbed around.
Rab Rakha!!!!!
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