Demons I saw after my Marriage!

Here is a true story that I wish to narrate. I have suffered it. I believe that time waits for no man. This is the true story; I was undergoing the life that I had never ever imagined. I was the type who always dared to be different, a sort of pioneer and a leader or rather a trend-setter and very fun-loving kind.  I was the kind who in the face of hardship would walk fearlessly towards any challenges that life offered to me, always with a smile and positive vibrations running in every part of my system. I would go to the bottom-most level to seek the truth of any matter that disturbed me and one can be very sure that I was triumphant in all my endeavors before I got married.

I had a very middle class up-bringing as in spite of all luxuries my parents kept all 3 of us grounded. My parents had instilled enough of discipline in along with my other two siblings, to hold our heads high with pride, frankness and uprightness. I was brought up to believe that Justice will always win and to be as wholehearted about other's success as if it was our own. I was put in to one of the best School in Dalhousie for a proper and chaste moral discipline so it was expected that I was highly educated and had a very broad standpoint on life.

Now, you must be wondering, so what is special about me? Right? Nothing, only the fact that one person changed my whole life in a jiffy(rather the arranged marriage), a very neat and clean head-over-heels to the depths of agony and suffering which I am undergoing even today. I guess you would ask out of curiosity - "Who is it?" Patience, my dear friends!!! It is none other than my husband, mother-in-law and sister-in-law. From day one, they began their calculative mind, preying on my temperament, my father’s property, chastity and chalking out devious means to pull my virtue down, in their overly enthusiastic hunger for and greed for money, reputation and humiliation. They were the type who just could not bear the fact that someone could outsmart their son or outshine him in any field. In fact I loved my husband just too much, trusted him to the core about just everything under the sun, placing him on top priority every time

This reminds me of a quote by F.W. Robertson wherein he states that, " Marriage is not a union merely between two creatures - it is a union between two spirits; and the intention of that bond is to perfect the nature of both, by supplementing their deficiencies with the force of contrast, giving to each sex those excellencies in which it is naturally deficient; to the one, strength of character and firmness of moral will; to the other, sympathy, meekness, tenderness; and just so solemn and glorious as these ends are for which the union was intended, just so terrible are the consequences if it be perverted and abused; for there is no earthly relationship which has so much power to ennoble and to exalt."

They began by first trying to isolate their family from me. Cooking up tales, spinning yarns that were absolutely not true, but fabricated, so that his cousins and extended family drew themselves away from me, in every respect making me feel abandoned, deprived of love and security. What does a new bride do under these circumstances in a traditional marriage? I did not need the support of anyone else in the family other than my husband to whom I was betrothed to. When this is denied to my accessibility, what is left for me? Whom do I turn to? Where can one go?

Their next target was his friends, colleagues and their spouses and children. He realized that I was friendly with them, as I wanted to inter-act with someone. I was the type to make friends easily because of my nature. The day their ears were filled by my husband, sister in law and mother in law they too drifted away from me. So, you see how lonely can a husband and in-laws made me feel, after marriage. They made it a point that they will go to any length to make me as depressed as possible so that I would in due course destroy myself when driven against the wall. Not replete with this act of a demon, they began torturing me even more with each passing day by making demands of extracting more money from my parents and even to help them buy an apartment.

With help from my father I was offered a job as Senior branding and Training Executive in King Group Hospitality they run a chain of restaurants in Dubai. I was deprived of the basic amenities after marriage. The emotional and mental torture increased so much that I was not able to give attention to my job and my chairman who happens to be my father’s friend asked me to take a few months break and join again later. Little did he know that what was happening with me back home?

When my husband, mother in law and sister in law got to know this the torture worsened seeing all this I asked my parents to visit me in Dubai. I tried to tell my Sister in laws husband who has come to visit in Dubai for holiday from Leicester. But when saw this she and my husband quietly called me in the kitchen and hit me.

On 6^th August my parents came to visit me and they were shocked seeing me and my condition my mother just hugged me and started crying and mom dad saw their true colors little did they know that they were such demons who had no love and respect for their daughter or them. All what mattered to them was just money.

They took all my earnings, my entire gold, the cash which they demanded at the wedding and even after all this on 9^th august which was my anniversary day they threw me out of the house.

 Indian women are known for their sense of patience, their loyalty and perseverance in sticking on to a bond that they hold so sacred. But came a time when I saw the light of the day and told myself, " ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!! Now what triggered this sea change in my attitude? Just a simple statement my  husband when he exclaimed, that shook the day lights out of my system, I have all these months looked upon you as just a W****!!!

Friends tell me, would any one of you withstand such an accusation coming from your husband and in-laws?

Today, I am fighting it legally desperately seeking justice.

I am sure that there are countless such stories with more misery that any human can bear to hear, read or speak about.

This is just awareness brought to you about Indian Marriages. Yes; people like me suffer, because today's world accepts people with low morals, low credibility and people who have no humaneness in them.
Hope I get justice so that no other girls questions her existence. 

Rab Rakha!!!!!