The moment you realize there is incredible beauty in not knowing!

Life, as you know, is a journey filled with twists, turns, and unexpected challenges. Letting go is really hard, especially when you have to let go of something you really want, whether it’s a great opportunity, someone you really liked or loved or even any expectations you had about something. I don’t think anyone knows how to completely let go or not fall back from time to time if they do, but there are definitely ways to make it easier for you to let go when you relentlessly don’t want to let go.

Anything that feels forced or more difficult than it should be, or that causes you pain and sorrow, is not designed for you. Having this mindset or faith will help you overcome the hesitation that comes with deciding whether or not to let go. Things destined for you have a way of finding their way into your life. The more you struggle for something that was never meant for you, the more it will fight back. You may eventually obtain what you desire, but it may not last and you may not be comfortable with it. The beauty of things designed for you is that they just happen; sometimes against all odds. We are simply programmed to complicate things.

“If you’re brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello.”

Letting go is extremely excruciating when you feel "halted," and it can sometimes appear impossible to do, but the truth is that if you've reached this point, it means you've worked so hard to make this thing work in a positive way, or reach your goal, and it can sometimes feel like we've tried so hard or come so far that letting go now will feel like a waste of time given the time and effort we invested in it. But, even if it feels like it, nothing is ever a waste of time; we are here to make mistakes and learn lessons in order to grow as individuals; if we continue to hold on to situations that are detrimental or negativity because we've already done too much or it's too late to change things, we are only setting ourselves up for an empty existence. There is strength in letting go, a power that gives greater peace and tranquility than staying in conditions that cause your emotions to pine every day.

When you reflect on your life, you will find yourself laughing at times when you thought you would never be able to let go of someone, or when you held on to something so firmly only to discover later that it was not right for you. Great things happen to us all the time in many kinds and forms; we just prefer to focus on the not-so-great. dread is defined as holding on to something out of dread that it will never happen again. We must be fearless when it comes to letting go.

“See it for what is, not what you want it to be.”

The truth is that if letting go is your only option, it usually implies that this object or someone has already let you go. You are attempting to remain in a place where you are no longer welcome. The mind has a funny way of deceiving us into thinking certain things in order to make it less painful for us, or to frame it in a way that doesn't actually damage our pride or break our heart, but we have to look at it as it is, not as we want to view it. This isn't an optical illusion; it's reality, and what you see is what you receive.

If an opportunity passed you by because it didn't want to stop at your station, if someone let you go because they didn't want to stay, if someone else got what you were asking for, this blessing was not written for you in the first place, and you will be blessed in another way. Let go of your fear, your past, your mistakes, your fears, your failures, and your self-doubt as you continue to learn the skill of letting go. Allow yourself enough forgiveness to let go of the pieces of yourself that dull your brightness.

Rab Rakha!!!!!