People say I'm communicating less
these days. To be frank, I've intentionally severed a number of loose ends in
my relationships& friendships. Some acquaintances who speak to me on various levels follow
me with their curious eyes and ask, 'Hey, why aren't you talking to him these
days?' 'Why aren't you seen with her now?'
Wait, am I asking these questions
for self-awareness or to be able to respond to those around me? True, we are
always concerned with looking good in public. So far, my life has been a roller
coaster ride.
People who ask intrusive
questions irritate me. 'Do you have a husband?' What is the number of kids you
have? 'Do you have a property?' To be honest, I'm tempted to tell them on their
faces, "Why can't you mind your own business, I actually imply, your
life?" Regrettably, we treat all of our relationships as if they were
business transactions. But we make things happen. Why do people encroach into
the lives of others? Is their life so stinky that they don't want to look at it
and prefer to avoid it by putting the emphasis on the lives of others?
These people irritate me. They
appear to be blind egg sacs of force that binds beliefs, diving within illusory
bounds, too lazy and timid to look beyond them, until their last breath. So,
how useful is it to put me out there in front of them? Besides, why should
I offer my life for their idle chatter and gossip? Do I put my happiness in the
hands of others? No. No way.
But we are obligated to these multitudes of codes and relationships from the moment we are born. It's all fixed
and tied down. There is no empty space. We don't cross that heavily guarded
line. And we are told what to wear, what to eat, what to study, and who to
marry. All of our preferences and choices are made for us.
Constant reminders keep us on
track. 'You do this and don't do that.' You'll get a lot of applause if you do
this. However, if you do this, you will be rendered ineffective.' We do not
question, but rather weave our lives around these predetermined social and
religious norms.
We can avoid religious dictums,
but not societal edicts. We have the ability to deceive God and tell lies in
his name. People around us, on the other hand, keep a close eye on us to see
where we go wrong. They aren't interested in guiding us, but they do enjoy
moral policing. If I have issues, you must as well. And if you don't have any,
I'll make some for you.
Please wait a minute. Is it
possible to forge one's own path? Can we truly forge our own path in a vacuum?
Is my life being led by me, or is it being led by the world around me? Is it
possible for me to truly own my life?
The oddest aspect of this great
journey is that it started with a word search. Yes, the quest for the value of
life. Whatever my imagination maybe, I must test it only in this life.
However, this stimulant is late in life, after countless setbacks,
disappointments, tearful moments, long sighs, and anxiety phases. It is too
late to celebrate these newfound moments of self-awareness. So, do we have a
choice? Life vanishes before our eyes the moment we believe we have grasped it.
We love labelling people but are unwilling to look within to see what is stinking on the inside. The subconscious mind never blossoms, but rather shrinks within. We fake our lives, consistently engulfing our true selves with a fistful of mud until they are completely buried without a trace. The deceased is remembered for what he did for others by sacrificing his soul (a rusted soul). The world celebrates human life in this way and moves on with no disruption to the redundant system. People who diverge from this normalcy were labelled abnormal and mocked.
Unless we put our hearts into it,
anything becomes boring after a few days, months, or years. 'Don't do any work
if you don't enjoy it,' says D H Lawrence. Yes, regardless of the outcome
around me or how individuals perceive me, I should undeniably create my own
contentment. Today is preferable to tomorrow.
Live your life in peace, as if
nothing bad were happening. Be a cheerful person. Never disseminate negativity.
You understand your worth. You are aware that you are correct. That is all. Go
ahead, be happy, and focus on your goal.
Moral: Never ever let people's
sayings affect your decision.
It's your life, live it as you
want.
Rab Rakha!!!!!
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