Husband and wife is a relationship like you see yourself in mirror

A lot of times when I write on relationships, I get comments that I write about “ideal” or “unrealistic” couples. But I always write what I think to be true, and the kind of relationship you would want to invest in personally. So maybe after reading this answer, many will feel the same, so I would kindly request you all to read this seriously and only settle for a partner who passes in at least half of these parameters.

• A healthy relationship is where neither the husband nor the wife brings back the matters of past and taunt each other regularly for the past mistakes that were committed.
• A healthy relationship is where neither the husband nor the wife stops the other one to carry out his/her responsibilities towards parents or siblings. A mature husband-wife understands the value of family. Neither the husband expects the wife to forget her family, neither the wife expects the husband to leave his family as she did.
• A healthy relationship is where there is communication. The husband and wife both discuss almost everything with each other before taking any decision. They also communicate about their problems, their emotions, their needs, and desires.
• A healthy relationship is where there is no cheating involved of any kind.
• A healthy relationship is where the husband can cook meals and the wife can pay bills if the need arises.
• A healthy relationship is where the husband or wife doesn't need to lie or hide about their money or property from each other. If you cannot trust your life partner that much, why marry them
• A healthy relationship is where both husband and wife bring up their children equally.
• A healthy relationship is where if one partner says “let's buy this saree for Mom”, the other one has to specifically ask to clarify, “Mine or yours?”
• A healthy relationship is where the husband's success becomes the wife's success and the wife's success becomes the husband's success.
• A healthy relationship is where both stick with each other in the lowest of times, in the worst of times, when the world is against them.
• A healthy relationship is where both can cry their hearts out and tell all their secrets without having the fear of being judged or laughed upon.
• A healthy relationship is where both understand that there would be fights and disagreements, but still love each other enough to forgive and forget.
• A healthy relationship is where both respect and value each other.
• A healthy relationship is where there is no ego of being a man or a woman.
• A healthy relationship is where none is keeping a score of how much they're doing for the other one.
• A healthy relationship is where both are committed and ready for compromises and sacrifices.
• A healthy relationship is where both grow old together, who love each other enough to complete this long journey of life even after several ups and downs and never leave each other, till death do them apart.

So if you have met someone who passes even half of these points, you're lucky. And for the rest, don't lose hope, who knows you might find someone like that tomorrow itself.

Rab Rakha!!!!!