I have been n thinking
a little about relations off late. Late twenties does that to you I guess, and
it is easy for every other conversation to disembark at the point of
life-partners, relationships, marriage. Whether it’s at the dinner table, a
casual conversation at your yoga class, an evening out with a bunch of old
friends and cousins, or banter with a colleague , everybody wants to steer the
topic of talk to a man they think I may be interested in, or then where the
mystery man is.
I have looked long and
hard at the relationships around me be it my close friends, cousins, and had
the chance to chew over what I wanted. I want someone to live with,
someone to spend a Sunday evening with, someone who enjoys my insanity, someone
who listens to my crazy talks and someone to cook for. I want someone with whom
I can walk barefoot on the beach and look at the stars, travel the world with,
and meet each of my dreams with.
But these days I fail
to understand looking at people why don’t they try to understand their spouse
or partner in a relationship be it marriage, courtship or dating? I think each
and every relationship needs to nurture and bloom into something beautiful. Each
and everyone relation needs understanding, acceptance, support and fine-tuning
for it blossom. These days people fall short to understand that and instead of
handling it peacefully they handle it with annoyance, stress and negativity...which
forces them to end something beautiful which started on a beautiful note.
Try looking at life
and relations with positivity and never vent out venom& malice on your
significant another. I don’t want to sound like an agony aunt or some counselor
here but try looking at things from all perspectives and see how beautiful this
roller coaster thing called life would be :-)
Just had this thing in
my head so thought why not put in on my blog.
Stay happy and spread
a ray of happiness everywhere you go
Rab Rakha!!!!!
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